About

F*ck swiping and get real about dating with singles events designed to get and keep you off the apps.

Meet Anita

DATING & RELATIONSHIP EXPERT
LICENSED MARRIAGE & FAMILY THERAPIST

My mission is to prove that healthy and satisfying relationships are possible—and it starts with choosing the right partner. Through OnLove Xperiences, I aim to share my expertise so that you date wisely and avoid divorce.

Anita is a dating and relationship expert, author, and speaker. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and has been featured in numerous media outlets and quoted in hundreds of articles.

Since 2006, with a mission to prove that happy relationships are possible, Anita equips clients with research-based knowledge and tools to build healthy, lasting relationships. Anita also has experience creating and emceeing singles events for charities, and one of her dreams was to bring singles together and have them meet IRL. This dream became a reality when she founded On Love X, LLC. She is also the founder and owner of Relationship Reality 312, Inc., a therapy group practice—both dedicated to helping clients with improving their love lives.

Anita holds a master’s degree in marital and family therapy from the University of San Diego, a master’s degree in secondary education from Arizona State University, and dual bachelor’s degrees in English and religion from the University of Iowa.

Why Did I Start OnLove Xperiences?

Fate—and my clients’ fatigue with the dating culture.

WE ARE SICK OF DATING CULTURE
AND DECIDED TO MAKE A CHANGE

It all started because of a canceled date.

It was the Chicago Bears season opener, and Anita’s date canceled last minute (of course!). She had two options: stay home and watch the game alone or go to a local bar to enjoy it with other fans. Needless to say, the bar won. What she hadn’t anticipated was that three hours later she would walk out as the host of a singles party in just a few short weeks.

The first singles party was a smashing success. It attracted over 250 singles and produced several first dates (and a few new couples ☺️). The event proved that there is a need for more real-life single experiences designed to help people meet the old-fashioned way. Anita’s clients were also fatigued with the dating apps and dating in general. 

OnLove Xperiences was created to help singles find–and keep–their person in real life.

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