Dating Blueprint & Date Coaching
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Dating isn’t a numbers game. It’s a mindset game.
You might have well-intentioned people tell you that dating is a numbers game. But it’s not. It’s a mindset game. Change your mindset, change your dating.
But change your mindset to what? And how are you supposed to do this?
With relationship science—and my expertise, because I have 20 years of experience as a dating and relationship therapist and coach, and I have a unique perspective to offer. As a couples therapist, I saw first-hand what worked in relationships and what didn’t. Sometimes clients came in too late to save their relationships, and I figured the better way to prevent divorce, breakups, and unnecessary relationship dissatisfaction was to focus on singles. So armed with research and experience, I have been teaching my singles the information and skills they need to not only choose a partner wisely, but to make sure their relationship is healthy and lasts.
Choosing your partner is the most important decision you will make in your life, but unfortunately the vast majority of singles date based on feelings and similar interests. Feelings are not the best indicator of who is a good fit for you, and research shows that sharing similar interests has little to no bearing on whether a relationship will work. It’s one of the many reasons why the dating app algorithms don’t work.
So you can put aside your desire to have someone who has your similar taste of music or love of tacos and margs. Instead, I can help you figure out who’s a good romantic fit for you based on what actually works.
Do You Know Who’s a Good Fit for You?
If you’re like most of my single clients, you probably struggle with knowing who’s a good fit for a long-term partner. It’s common to not know what to look for anymore, and the dating apps have aided in creating this paralysis. With so many choices, how are you supposed to trust the decision that you make? How do you know if you’re settling or not? How do you know if you’re being too picky?
Let the Dating Blueprint be your guide…
Dating Blueprint
You can keep wasting money on dates that go nowhere, or you can spend your money to have clarity about yourself, what you want and need in a relationship, and who’s a good fit for you as a long-term partner. One of the most powerful aspects of the Dating Blueprint is that it’s both just specific enough and flexible enough in highlighting who is a good fit for you. It eliminates:
confusion
Below are your options:
Level 2
Dating Blueprint assessments and handouts + coaching session add-on
Video explanations of results
Invitation to Matchmaking database
Invitations to exclusive events based on natural compatibility with other singles
Get a 15% discount off of a coaching session by bundling it with your Dating Blueprint.
When you sign up, you will receive an email within two (2) business days with instructions.
Group Matchmaking Events
COMING 2026
Not in Chicago?
Don’t worry—I’m just getting started. Most of my events are currently in the Chicagoland area, but I’m expanding. If you’re outside of Chicago, you can still sign up for the Dating Blueprint (you could be matched with people who would relocate for love!). Join my list to stay in the loop and be the first to know when I bring events to your city, and please spread the word to spread the love. We can change the dating culture.
Date Coaching
Besides my specialty of helping singles figure out who’s a good fit as a long-term partner, I can help you with these common concerns:
Figure out why you’re single.
Identify and break unhealthy dating and relationship patterns.
Figure out if you’re really settling.
Help you overcome your fear of divorce (or being divorced again).
There are no gimmicks, packages, or fear-based tactics here—just thoughtful, expert, individualized coaching grounded in relationship science and twenty years’ worth of real clinical experience. Every client is unique. You may only need one session to gain clarity and answers, or you may need ongoing support to change ineffective dating patterns. I take a proactive, no-BS approach. I’ll both support you and hold you accountable. A healthy relationship is possible, and I can help you build it.
Work with me
Contact me if you’re interested in scheduling a coaching session. Cheers to love!
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